Sometimes it feels like everyone around you is in a relationship. As a result at times, you will be left wondering why am I always the single friend? This can be the trigger to take you down a dark road leading to self-esteem issues and identity crisis. We’re here though, to help you maintain your identity and maneuver through this world of corny couples all around you.

Read on to find out what to do when all your friends are dating, tips on how do you enjoy being single and other advice and suggestions to help you lead a productive yet fun time alone. All in all, learn with us how to be happy single when all your friends are in a relationship.

What To Do When All Your Friends Are Dating

It all starts smoothly with each of you single and ready to mingle but as time passes, you come to the sudden realization that everyone in the group has found someone of themselves. This pairing could be done from within the group and from outside as well. While in a group with pairs of couples, you might find yourself just looking for something to grab your attention because everyone else around is engulfed into each other, excluding you.

This can be annoying, and the worst part is that none of them will be doing it on purpose. They are simply cocooned in a bubble of their own. So, if you are thinking How do I stop being jealous of my friend’s relationships, then we have a huge list of things you can do.

1.   Self Care

Self-care is the one thing that gets disregarded the most. In the daily hustle-bustle of our life, we often tend to forget to give ourselves some time. Even when one is out having fun or partying all the time, there is bound to be a moment when you burn yourself out.l Whether in a relationship or single, it is very important to prioritize yourself and give yourself the attention and care that you would be okay spending on other people.

Think of it this way, you’re your lover. Try to allocate a few days of the week when you will have a considerable amount of time pampering yours. The best thing about self-care is that there are thousands of things you can do which can count as self-care. First off, you can start by treating your skin right. This means using moisturizers, toners, face masks, etc the whole deal. Don’t worry though if this is something you are not interested in. A bubble bath is another extremely basic yet comforting thing you can opt for in the name of self-care.

2.   New Habits

Another thing we suggest for you to do when all your friends are busy in their lives is to work on a new habit. This is your chance to look for something that can entertain you outside of your friend group. Start by something small such as reading. There are tons of genres for you to pick from and you might end up discovering a whole new world. This is one of the easiest, cheapest and productive habits you can opt for. New habits don’t necessarily mean reading, you can pick anything such as sewing, drawing, painting, etc, Just whatever floats your boat.

3.   Journaling

Journaling is a great answer to a lot of people. People who don’t have any romantic partners in their life might be feeling more left out because of not being able to comprehend how they are feeling. In a relationship, once you’re with someone they can help you navigate the tricky waters. Alone you can use journaling to make sense of your feelings and learn how to form coherent thoughts. This can also do wonders for your writing skills, so productive all in all.

Your journal can be your new little friend, by your side ready for you to rant, vent, or jot down all the word ideas and thoughts that go through your head.

4.   Socializing

One should always be open to new people and new experiences. The best way to embrace new people is by socializing. If all your friends are busy in their world, we suggest you step out of their universe and take a look at the vast world in front of you. Hit up all the other friends you have been avoiding because you didn’t have time for them. Try to make space for new people in your life. don’t say no to that invite to a house party. Go on and you might find new and different sorts of people out there. The idea is to widen your horizon.

Going out to movies, dinners, bars and clubs can be the answer to get you some peace of mind with nights clear of any worries of life. The point isn’t to escape but to see that the world has a lot more to offer than just relationships and romantic affiliations.

5.   Coupled Buddies Day

Having single friends when in a relationship is a breath of fresh air for a lot of people. Do not cut off all your friends if they are in relationships. Keep up with them and try to keep a day for them as well. You might feel left out being a single friend but in a group where everyone is in a couple, you can stand out and get some limelight on you. These people might end roasting you but all in all, it’s going to be a night filled with energy for you and them as well.

A lot of times, people in relationships always need someone with a listening ear to listen to their stories and provide suggestions and advice. Believe it not, you might find that this can be pretty fun as well. On a side note, getting a sneak peek at the drama that goes on in relationships might put you off of them and not make you crave for one.

How Do You Enjoy Being Single

1.   Don’t Force It

Know that life has a lot more other than relationships. If it’s meant to be for you, it’s going to find it’s the way towards you. Don’t try to force romantic relationships with people around you who you are not even that interested in. It‘s just going to make you stick in a toxic situation or leave you wanting for more. Let time do its magic and be patient. Till then, find other things to derive happiness from.

2.   Embrace The Single Life

Instead of seeing a single life as a curse, turn it into the opportunity it is. Think of all the things you have the avenues to explore because you are bound to anyone. Not to take this negatively, but a lot of time when one is in a relationship all plans and events have to be scheduled around each other’s timings. You have to make sure that you are in sync with the other person. That is not the case for single people. Embrace your single life and get the most out of it while you can!

Instead of cursing yourself and thinking why am i always the single friend, be glad that you’re the one with more avenues, opportunities and space to mingle and enjoy.

3.   Don’t Guilt Yourself

A lot of times, even no matter how you convince yourself you might still end up feeling bad about the way things are going. You can find lots of other ways to comfort yourself and find other things that can make you happy but you still might end up feeling bad. This is totally in human nature to feel about not having something and being envious.

Don’t send yourself into a guilt trip for feeling bad. Embrace the feelings and wait to pass through it. You’re going to be more at peace once you’re done confronting those feelings.

4.   Don’t Limit Yourself

If you see all your friends in relationships, don’t make yourself want the same thing. Even if relationships are the norm, you do not have to confine yourself to them if that is something you don’t want. If you are more comfortable in one-night stands and tinder dates, then do that! Just remember to be safe and you can conquer the world.

Don’t alter any of your preferences because of peer pressure. The last thing you need is to go into a relationship half-heartedly. Make sure that if you ever do decide to get into a relationship, you do it solely because you can’t see yourself without the other person.

How Do I Stop Being Jealous Of My Friends Relationships

Lastly, this is one question that comes into everyone’s mind when they are single and happy for their friends. It is in human nature to want something that is out of your reach. Same is the case with relationships. Even though you might not want it that much or might not be in the right frame of mind, it would still fascinate you. When around you friends, you might end up feeling envious and jealous and it is completely okay!

Embrace those feelings and let yourself know that if that is something written for you, there is no force in the entire universe who can take it away from you. You shall get what is yours but all in due time. If it’s something you’re sensitive about, then you can try talking about it to your friends to make sure they aren’t making a norm out of ragging you for it.

Conclusion

Go with the flow and take it one day at a time. Good things will come your way. Don’t force yourself into something because of peer pressure and take a look at the world in front of you.you wil that it is extremely vast and has tons to offer you.

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Nabeel Ahmad is the founder and editor-in-chief of Lone Mind. Apart from Lone Mind, he is a serial entrepreneur, and has founded multiple successful companies in different industries.

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